In a new surrounding, is it us who become attuned to the team, the workings of the group, the fraternity. Is it us who adjust our own frequency to match that of the people around us, or is it vice versa? Does the group get accustomed to us? Or is it both ways, each trying to match the others’ thought process, deciding factors, opinions, and views until all eventually fit in the samemould. Is this the science of belonging?
We attune our lives according to the natural frequency of our surroundings. Then we adjust to change. If we protest or fight against change- the workings of our peripheries- it hurts us.
We, humans, are similar to the musical instrument that needs tuning depending on who is playing it, for which type of music.
Do we make the patterns or do we fit into patterns ourselves? So do w…