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Four Love Stories for your Watchlist

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  Love. I have read a few books in the genre, but the number is fewer than those in mystery and thriller genre. But I have watched enough movies and shows to recommend it. I list down below few of my latest favorite shows on love, relationship and romance – it encompasses everything – the highs and lows of a relationship, the intricacies of sharing space, trust issues, care-taking, all with love at its core. It’s the adult version of love, along with the teenage version of butterflies in the stomach, and the anticipation. First Love: The Japanese web series was released on Netflix sometime last year. I watched in almost entirely while travelling - flights to Pune from Bengaluru, to Bhubaneshwar from Pune and train journey to Keonjhar from Bhubaneshwar. It was a roller coaster of emotions. The story goes back and forth from 1990s and 2000s. A cute little teenage romance brews between the high schoolers - boy, Namiki, and the girl, Noguchi. The fresh brush of first love. It i...

A girl thinking - on reading, effortless writing and stories we hear

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A girl thinking When I read, it is like being a voyeur. Bearing witness to someone’s deepest fears, overwhelming emotions, untold miseries, memories held dear, and secrets long buried. It is for a few hours that I wear their skin, reside in their world, see through their eyes and feel through their words on the page. It is almost reimagining a different life. And many a times it makes me think – my own life, rethink my views, revisit my old memories. On Earth We are Briefly Gorgeous - I thought of my grandfather while reading about Little Dog and his white grandfather Paul. That time when we traveled to Nayagarh in the night bus from Rayagada, few months after the birth of my sister. I had some school holidays – durga puja vacations perhaps – so elders suggested I enjoy my vacation with cousins at Nayagarh, while my mother could rest awhile after her delivery with one less person to care after. I had munched fryums, sev, and coca cola, deliriously happy travelling without my parents, ...

Living a slow life

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  There is a solace in mastering the art of being content and satisfied in one’s life. Finding pleasure and satisfaction in simple things in one’s routine life – a day of reading, a good show, a stroll in the nearby public park, a visit to the temple, the joy of having prasad, or just vegetable shopping from the nearby vendor once in a while without ordering it via the 10 minute app. Or just cooking simple hearty meals at home for your loved ones. “Never Settle” – this adage never rung true to me. Being ambitious is good, for those who want it – but being satisfied in the present too is a life hack. An essential life skill. There is always a need to slow down. I want to be able to afford a slow life. Money wise, yes but also mentally, emotionally. Slow down sometimes with my family. Have good food, from fresh produce. Grow a kitchen garden. Books. Or just be with my thoughts, daydreaming without my phone in reach. Is dwindling ambition to soar professionally is necessarily a bad ...

Queeristan by Parmesh Sahani

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  Queeristan (Amazon Link) Thanks to Audible Free Trial I listened to this amazing non-fiction on LGBTQ inclusion in Indian workplaces. Author Parmesh Sahani identifies as gay Indian, working closely with Godrej higher management and employees for years to create an inclusive workplace, both legally and in spirit. This book is a result of those years of experience, research, collaboration with individuals from difference spectrum of the society and organizations who has successfully transitioned into a queer friendly one.   Indian history is inclusive. From the Khajuraho temple architectures, to Konark to the Rig Veda, there is existing proofs even 2000 years ago of Indian inclusiveness of queer. It’s the draconian British law that criminalised it, which was scraped in 2009, came into effect once again following a sad judgement in 2013 and eventually was scraped off for good in 2018. I am in awe of the lawyers who fought this legal battle- colleagues and partners – Arundh...

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